Episode 133: How to Help Your Kids Process the Loss of Charlie Kirk

In this somber episode, we reflect on the tragic and violent loss of Charlie Kirk. Just hours before he was killed, Charlie shared his favorite verse—Romans 8:28—a verse that has become a guiding light for many through the grief and confusion left in the wake of his death. Our hope with this episode is to give parents some tools for walking through this tragedy with kids who may be affected by it. We offer a biblical framework for looking at it as well as some practical advice. We want to encourage families to grieve deeply, to lament biblically, and to pray boldly. We also want to point to the redemptive arc of God’s story—from creation to fall, from redemption in Christ to future glory. The God Charlie proclaimed is not silenced. This episode is a call to courage, to resolve, and to hope. A call for this generation to rise—not in retaliation, but in truth and grace. A call to mourn what was lost, but to also step into what comes next.

Main Points Covered

• Grieve with your children.
• Each child will mourn differently. Be sensitive!
• Warn of exposure to graphic content on X. Especially for teens!
• Encourage them with the hope of the Gospel
• Truth is worth defending.
• Being a Christian comes at a cost.
• Equip them to understand culture
• Weapons are the means, worldview is the cause.
• Understand the shift in the definitions of truth, hate, and harm.
• The joyful reaction is a reflection of the marxist worldview.
• Flourish in faith, family, and fellowship.
• Revere God.
• Be active in church.
• Worship and train up your families.
• Bring as many people to the cross with you as possible.

Questions addressed

• Why does evil happen?
• Would gun control stop such occurrences?
• Why would people rejoice over this loss?
• Is “speaking hate” the cause of this event? Spoiler: no, it is the speaking of truth!
• As believers, what do we do now?

Resources & Organizations Mentioned

Scriptures:

• Romans 8:28 – Charlie’s favorite verse
• Revelation 3:16 – Lukewarm Christianity 
• Matthew 5:13 – Salt of the earth
• 2 Corinthians 10:5 – Taking thoughts captive
• Matthew 28 – The Great Commission
• Acts 17:26 – God’s sovereignty over nations
• Ephesians 6:12 – Spiritual warfare
• Proverbs 22:6 – Train up a child

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