
Y’all… this episode was a spicy one 😅 Kaleb and I went IN on red and green flags in relationships—whether you're just starting out, deep into dating, or already engaged. We talked about the things we both overlooked, what churches sometimes miss when it comes to dating advice, and what actually matters when you’re deciding if someone is marriage material. It’s a fun, honest, and slightly chaotic convo, but it’s SO needed! We hope this episode helps you make better decisions, seek wisdom, and get that godly discernment before walking down the aisle! 🙏🏻❤️
👀 P.S. If you’re dating someone, send them this episode and say, “Thoughts?” 😏 💌 And don’t forget to DM me your thoughts—y’all know I love hearing your stories!
In This Episode
02:00 – Should You Even Get Engaged?
06:15 – Dating Fast: Wise or Red Flag?
10:00 – Character vs. Charm: What to Look For
17:00 – The Pressure to Be Perfect in Dating
22:00 – Faith, Purity & Spiritual Compatibility
30:00 – Relationship Checkpoints: 6–12 Months
37:00 – Friends, Family & Red Flag Input
43:00 – Letting Go of “The Perfect Person” Myth
55:00 – Prayer, Discernment & Final Thoughts
Books & Resources Mentioned:
The Sacred Search by Gary Thomas
Single, Dating, Engaged, Married by Ben Stuart
101 Questions to Ask Before You Get Engaged by Norman Wright
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