

Emerson and Joy, a father and daughter, share how the bedtime stories Emerson told Joy became a children’s book set in the Land of Nuf. In it, a well-meaning Giggly named Beega puts his foot in his mouth, and his friend Dooga helps him make it right. At its heart are four questions to ask before speaking: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? Is it clear? There’s also the “Can we get a do-over?” phrase, which makes repair feel lighter and builds resilience instead of shame. They also talk about parents modeling repair and teaching kids to “assume the best until we hear the rest.” Joy shows what that looks like with a story about her daughter’s classmate whose unkindness came from grief.
Resources mentioned:
Beega Gets a Do-Over by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs & Joy Eggerichs Reed
Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
Mother and Son: The Respect Effect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
Speak Your Mind by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
Love and Respect in the Family by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
Get to the Publishing Punchline by Joy Eggerichs Reed
Writing With Bernard the Baguette: A Kid’s Fun and Silly Guide to Discover the Joys of Writing by Joy Eggerichs Reed
Punchline Agency (Joy’s agency)
Capable by Sissy Goff and David Thomas
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